Melanie Bacheler and Gail Parkins smile for the camera
This is the photo of Melanie Bacheler and her mother Gail Parkins that sits on Bacheler's desk. It was taken when her mother turned 56. Bacheler hosted a big surprise birthday party for her mom with 75-plus people. She rented a limo for the two of them to get their nails done. It was the first time her mom had ever ridden in a limo. Parkins passed away the following January.

My Duke Cancer Story: A Labor of Love


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Melanie Bacheler, at 32, was a full-time pharmaceutical company sales representative, part-time gymnastics coach, and a new mom of a six-month-old when her mother Gail Parkins was diagnosed with stage 3 ovarian epithelial cancer. By the time her cancer was discovered, it had already advanced through Parkins’ abdominal cavity.

Her mom needed her, so she quit her sales job to become Parkins’ main caregiver. For two years and two months, until Parkins’ death, Bacheler shuttled her mother back and forth to Duke University Hospital and sat with her during treatments.

Parkins, a teacher from Texas and mother of two, who’d spent her career teaching fifth-grade in Fayetteville, North Carolina, died in 2002 at the age of 56.

“She was the epitome of the sweet little mom; she would’ve been a great grandma,” said Bacheler, now 50. “When she passed away, I was kind of lost. I wanted her back desperately. I missed her. I needed an outlet to channel my grief.”

Bacheler also wanted to find a way to give back to her mother’s doctors after all they’d done for her. So, in May 2002, in her mother’s memory, she organized the Gail Parkins Memorial Ovarian Cancer Walk to benefit ovarian cancer research at Duke.

The two-mile route, which started and ended at a shopping center near her house, attracted 200 participants, including 20 survivors, and raised $62,000. It was held in May, close to Parkins’ birthday. That was 16 years ago, and the event — now a walk and 5K run — is still going strong.

Bacheler said the walk’s become “a spiritual event for the ovarian cancer community” — an annual opportunity for friends and families from across the country to reunite and raise awareness and funds for the cause.

“It’s truly inspiring for the ovarian cancer survivors, some 20 years out, some 20 days out, to have a place to come together and be happy and celebrate survival,” she said.

Coordinating the event, year-after-year, has become a full-time job, a labor of love for Bacheler.

“I really thought I would just do the walk one time,” she said. “I'm proud it's left a legacy for my mom; a way to keep her memory alive, and for some of the teams, a way to keep their loved one's memory alive. I also believe this event is helping save women's lives.”

The $3.8 million or so that the event has raised since 2002 has supported studies on the impact of ovarian cancer treatment on quality of life as well as research into how genetic alterations impact disease progression and how these alterations might suggest potential new therapies.

Andrew Berchuck, MD, director of the Division of Gynecologic Oncology and Duke Cancer Institute’s Gynecologic Cancer disease-site group, has been involved with the event since the beginning; walking or running for the cause and hosting an on-site educational forum.

“Melanie has extraordinary energy and dedication — she’s just a gem — and her husband Tim and family have also been dedicated to the cause,” said Berchuck. “I'm just awestruck by their commitment and what they’ve done for our program. They’ve had a huge impact on awareness of ovarian cancer in the Research Triangle area and beyond. We’re grateful to have had this support for 16 years.”

Bacheler vows to continue organizing the Gail Parkins Memorial Ovarian Cancer Walk and 5K Run, “for as long as people keep showing up.”

“Each year either before the walk or at the walk, I meet someone new, and it’s typically someone recently diagnosed with ovarian cancer, that just touches me and keeps the fire burning,” said Bacheler. “I will keep fighting with them and for them the only way I know how.”

This page was reviewed on 08/31/2018